Reset the human relationships of SNS with "Blow solution"

On SNS, various human relationships continue to connect

The broken opponent may notice, "Is the follow -up?"There is a possibility that you will follow you again, but it seems that you often keep it as it is because you have broken it."Blow solution" is a well -known behavior on SNS of young people.

Youth who has no opportunity to reset past connections

Blow solutions are performed on Twitter and Instagram.It is sometimes called "blowing" (block and deleted).

In October 2021, Twitter released the "Delete Followers" function.It is a function to remove follow -up from the other party.It resembles a blot, but it doesn't come off from yourself.If you want to remove it, release it separately.This feature is provided as one of the functions to protect those who are slandered on Twitter.

Regarding LINE, even if you delete it after blocking, you will not be able to erase yourself from the opponent's "friend".The only way to disappear from the opponent's "friend" is to rebuild the account, so the hurdles are high.

The reason why you want to remove yourself from the opponent's follow -up is "to return to the state before connecting with the other person."This feeling is sometimes called "human reset syndrome".Human relations reset syndrome refers to a psychological state that repeats human relationships reset (resolution).You change all the relationships, telephone numbers, and email addresses on SNS, and sometimes move to eliminate past human relationships.

However, young people today do not think it is such an exaggerated story.Since I have been connected through SNS since I was a child, my elementary school friend who stopped contacting was often lost in SNS followers.In addition, when I passed high school, I connected each other with a hashtag of "#Spring to 〇〇" on SNS, but I had never interacted after enrollment, I had a common acquaintance, so I followed it but graduated without contact.There are many people involved.So we solve the blot.

Before the spread of SNS, a turning point in school graduation, retirement of part -time jobs, and employment, and forgetting each other without contacting me.But now, classmates in elementary school continue to see two shots with lovers.It was an era where the relationship with the other party must be clearly shown by means such as blowing and blocks.

This may be a person who feels it even for adults.Some people are connected on Facebook but never meet.Facebook has declared "friends organizing" and removes it because Facebook just stops a friend, but most remain the same.There is a delicate relationship, such as a company that has already quit.Then, if the sense of "blowing" like a young man spreads, it may be easier.

That doesn't mean that young people are not bothered by being broken.I sometimes check "Who has broken other than myself" on the followlist and sometimes get rid of it.One high school student said, "I checked the followlist of the other party because I was broken and left only the cute girls. He might be aiming for one -chan."

Some LINE, which cannot be solved, says, "I blocked the ex -boyfriend, but there is a talk room, so I use it for shopping notes."Right now, you can create your own talk room with the function of "KEEP memo", but it is not such a thing, but it is a young man who wants to enjoy anything.

Once connected, SNS has an aspect that is difficult to cut, and you will be tired of the relationship.It is important to create an environment where you can enjoy mute, blocks, and blot solutions properly.

Author: Tomoko Suzuki

IT journalist / smartphone safety advisor.He wrote articles about familiar IT, such as SNS and smartphones.He is familiar with teenage smartphoneculture and goes to high school girls and Purikura.My hobbies are very cute iPhone cases.He has authored more than 20 books, including a book that uses a smartphone and net to be learned by parents and children.