By, smartwatches 13/12/2022

Keisuke Haneda "Easy reset" is not possible "

Life does not change even if you reset human relationships

―― In “Details,” it depicts the protagonist Saezu (Saizu) is discarding things and at the same time making human relationships smarter.Recently, more and more people say, "Let's let go of unnecessary relationships for me". What do you think about that?

The other day, when I talked with a person, I said, "I'm going to play with my friends in my school days tomorrow."I was surprised when I was told.I wondered what a society was praised for playing with friends from school days, but everyone wants to reset human relationships.

Many people may be able to go to a higher stage by cutting off their relationships that pull their feet, and other better encounters come in.

Of course, I think it's okay to keep a distance from those who really pull your feet, but in some cases the person who is giving a proper advice has just shown a rejection.There is, right?However, even if he thinks he has cut off unnecessary relationships, it is only a "guy who suddenly lost contact" ...In fact, you may be the only one who resets human relationships and has changed your life.

――As Saezu, who tries to cut out not only things but also human relationships, a person named Saigai knows his past wrongdoing, and every time he tossed Saezu's heart.To go.What is the intention of making a person called Sarai?

Even if you can throw away things and relationships, you can't throw away humans.And the "memory" that the other person has on his own cannot be thrown away.

If that memory is "negative", you will be a "inconvenient person" for yourself, continue to live somewhere, and keep your life.No matter how much you abandoned things, no matter how you cut your relationships, you can draw a person named Sarai as an unable to throw it away.

―― While feeling a threat to the existence of Saei, Saezu's heart gradually changes.What impressed me was Saezu, who was particular about throwing away things, but at the end of the story, "being saved by things".

For example, when you stay at a guest house, do you feel comfortable?It's a cheap plastic cup without anything, or if you pick it up, it will calm down strangely.

I just went to Shinchosha's library and looked at a bundle of materials that the deceased writer would have used about 20 years ago.Obviously, there were a lot of materials that I would like to throw away, but when I looked at them for some reason, various emotions came out.

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I felt the power that things brought from one after another to emotions that cannot be verbalized.I guess there are many emotions that are evoked by things and many creatures that come from it.

If Japanese people want to change their lives dramatically ...

―― After reading “I was the extermination,” I felt that I was allowed to have something unnecessary or chaotic in myself.I thought I had to cut off my life and reduce unnecessary things.

In the future, if we are unlikely to increase income, a certain level of Japanese people wants to change their lives dramatically, and I think that becoming a minimalist is the fastest on the surface.It takes money to buy things, but you only need to throw away things, such as oversized garbage tickets or Mercari.

In addition, it is extreme to reduce the number of things and make it an empty “galanto” room, but the change is visibly and easy to understand.It is certain that the "feeling of life has changed" is stronger.But it's another story whether you really feel happy.At first glance, there may be something important to you in something that you don't need or the chaotic things.

The story is a bit of a leap, but I feel that the products in the world are also emphasized by visual understanding, and things that are difficult to understand are being shunned.For example, the popular design with the high -brand logo on the front is also evidence that it is preferred.

In the Edo period, there are some polite embroidery and patterns on the back of the law, but there are no cultures that shine casually in such invisible places.I think it's lonely that the “stylish playfulness” that can enjoy the confusingness is decreasing.

――What kind of works are you trying to make, while easy -to -understand things are preferred?

I'm not particularly conscious, but I noticed later that I wrote "Details" and "Phantom" published this time in an easy -to -understand manner."Success K", which I wrote about four years ago, had some esoteric in chaos that I could not understand unless I read it a couple of times.

As for "Delicious" and "Phantom", it was a work that was easy to read like a self -development book (laughs).Even if you are not good at novels and do not read it, I think that after reading, it is easy to understand, "It may be such a message."

How to face vague anxiety

――There are many young generations in their 20s and 30s who have vague anxiety in the future and have vague anxiety in the future.What do you want to convey to such generations now?

I think it is important to consider how to deal with anxiety.If you are worried about finding a job, it is important to find out what educational backgrounds and skills you need to take the recruitment exam.If you are worried about living in Japan in the future, I think you should acquire as much language and money knowledge that you can move abroad.

I leave my anxiety as it is, so I don't know what to do.I think it's just a matter of finding out the contents of the anxiety in detail and taking the best measures to clear it.

In addition, you do not get a job without any skills or quit the company, and sell "earning information products" with MacBook in one hand.For the time being, trying to increase the number of followers of SNS and become an influencer.

These people, for example, learn cooking skills from scratch, develop a menu that sells, and do not want to start selling in a kitchen car first or pile up in trial and error.。

There are many people who are behaving subtly wrong words and ideas in "Phantom" and "Phantom" without chewing on their own.The point is that you don't swallow what people who are earning and getting a job, claiming extreme things, say.You have to think for yourself.I think so when you look back on yourself.