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「お宅は年収、どのくらいあるの?」無礼な質問を一発で黙らせる"銀座ママのひと言" 「貯金はどれくらい?」にも使える

社会|『銀座のママが教えてくれる「会話上手」になれる本』#人間関係#コミュニケーション2021/12/31 11:00PRESIDENT Online
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プライバシーに関わる失礼な質問には、どう答えればいいか。銀座の高級クラブ「クラブ由美」のオーナー・伊藤由美さんは「そういうときは『で、あなたは?』と聞き返せばいい。聞かれたくないことを聞き返すことで、失礼な質問をかわすことができる」という――。(第3回)

* This article re -edit a part of Yumi Ito's "Books that can be a good conversation" (Wanibooks Plus Shinsho).

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Some people don't want to talk too much if they can, and don't want to meet.You can go into the privacy of a person with your feet, listening to personal things.One of the types of "prying lovers", such as "curiosity", and worse, is a "annoying personal detective".

It may be a common sight, especially in the relationship between wives and mom friends.How much money is there?How much is the loan monthly?Which school does a child take?Which school did you leave?What is the parents' home doing?Where is my husband's home university?Where are you working and what is your position?How much bonuses have come out?I'm tired of it.

Sometimes no one wants to answer.The persistent prying shop that makes you want to tell the word "is also courtesy", no matter how much you think of it as "irresistible" or "troublesome person" from the side, you are completely aware of it.There are many things that are not.

Because I have a straight personality, even if I encounter this situation, I tend to think that I need to answer, but it is not easy.These types may spread the rumored story without roots or leaves if you make a blatantly unpleasant face or underneath.So I want to dodge as comfortably as possible.

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